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3) I have been going to the post office 2-6 times a week all year (2006) I had a couple of weeks off for the first time in over a year, I'm pretty damn sure I told you there would be a delay due to this. I told all my other buyers and not one person had a problem with it. Also you say the message asking for your address was sent on the 2nd which is true, however you didn't reply till the 8th and then I posted the record straight away on the 9th.
I'm sorry it hasn't arrived but I really don't see why your getting so offended by me asking you to wait until it's classed as lost by the royal mail. I would have replaced it as I have another copy or refunded you no questions asked at that point (without you opening a paypal claim). This has all come around because you for some bizzare reason think what I'm asking is unreasonable? Your the first person who's had a problem with that and I hope to god the last as all this could have been avoided.
I'm not trying to take your money or get out of giving you a refund, I just want you to give it the 15 days royal mail state first, is that such a terrible thing?
Further to your previous posting 3) I proceeded to open this dispute as Paypal give you a window from payment sent to when you first file a dispute notice, I paid on the 20th of December and at that time you took my money and did not mention anything to me about taking a few weeks off, this I can assure you, just the price you where looking £5 and postage costs of £2.50. I have all the PM's you have sent to me from the first time you replied to a record I was looking.
You have also stated that I have filed a claim against you, I have not opened a claim yet with Paypal, I have 20 more days to do this, only a dispute which I am eligable to do as I havent received anything from you in almost 30 days.
In regards to opening a dispute, that is my right under Paypals policies so I do not know why you proceeded in putting my name on the forum as a bad buyer. Can you explain exactly to everyone reading this what I have done so wrong for you to start all of this off? Apart from paying you for goods I havent received.
It's a little hypocritical to be honest that you started this thread to unearth bad traders in the first place and now you are trying to turn the cards on me and blacken my name, who really is out of pocket here?? Still nothing in todays post either.
You asked why I was and still am offended by all of this... well you where the one who started posting about me on the forum, I did not ask for my name or anything to by tranished by all of this, any problems should have been dealt with via PM's, but you decided to make me out to be a bad buyer here and comment about me on a forum, so yes I am offended and annoyed, who wouldnt be.
One last thing, you stated above... Your the first person who's had a problem with that and I hope to god the last as all this could have been avoided.
Why does your feeedback on eBay from the 23rd of December state differently...
Feedback from a buyer: Goods not received, seller refused refund, had to claim from paypal. Very poor!
Reply by xit2nowhere: I asked buyer to wait until I claimed from PO, never refused a refund.
Feedback from a buyer: 3+ months wait for £7.99 is a bit petty and not a good way to run a business.:o(
The scenario sounds familiar..... I rest my case.